Tuesday, April 12, 2005

What's in a (sur)name

The more I think about it, the more I feel annoyed indignant miffed that I have to change my surname when I get married. Because, really, why should I? Why should all women, for that matter? The way I see it, it really boils down to being turned into someone's possession.

Ok, to be honest, am not really peeved over the name-change per se—after all, I can (and I will) hyphenate my name for my bylines, so that I'll still retain some semblance of my original identity. It's more of why I have to be the only one to go through the process of change; why do I (or all married women, for that matter) have to be the only one to go through the hassles of changing my name on my passport, driver's license, SSS, BIR, PhilHealth, and who knows what else? How come the men don't have to do a thing?

Buti pa ang mga Chinese. They may prefer sons over daughters, but at least their daughters get to keep their names when they get married.

3 comments:

Anndee said...

you're right! super hassle!

Anonymous said...

Actually. There are some cases wherein Chinese male switch to the last name of his wife's family. The wife family is more well off and they needed a quasi-son, so guy gets adopted to the family.

Anonymous said...

wow, i never knew that about the chinese women's surname. interesting...